I have a 3 Legged Thing, Brain Evo II, carbon.
I won't even go there!
Induro CT414 with an Induro BH2 head is reckoned by my old pro-photog friend to be about the ideal. Could look at one with fewer leg sections, perhaps the CT313.
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I agree with the poster above who says get the best first time round, like RRS or Gitzo, but there are other high quality brands. This philosophy saves money in the long run and I apply this to all kit acquisitions now, particularly lenses. Otherwise you end up with a pile of mediocre junk which, once tallied up, comes to a lot of money. I think in this ILC thing, you either go for top end stuff or stick with a high quality point and shoot.