By aperture, is it safe to assume you mean the e-dial at top rear of the camera?
Do you have a copy of the manual? If not, you can download from the Ricoh Imaging Japan Web site.
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The default behavior of the e-dial in M-mode is to change the shutter speed. To change aperture, press the +/-Av button while turning the e-dial. Automatic exposure compensation (+/-) is not available in M-mode. The meter-recommended exposure is displayed on the rear LCD in the +/- pane. Adjust shutter speed and aperture to center the indicator in the +/i pane.
Neither the set shutter speed nor the set aperture should change by itself once set in M-mode. The only exception is if the green button is pressed. In that case, the meter reading is applied to change the settings. How they are changed is explained in the manual and are configured in the capture menu.
The graph display in the +/- pane will change according to the light coming through the lens. You are safe to ignore this unless you are wanting to change the exposure.
One more thing, in regards to metering...unless you are confident as to why amd how you might use spot metering, it is best to use either multi-segment or center-average as the meter setting.
If behavior is other than what I described, there may be a problem with the camera, meaning that a request to the seller to return might be a good idea.
Steve