If you can afford it, get a Tamron 28-75 f2.8 DI XR. Use auto ISO from 400-1250 range and shoot away in P mode with SR on. You'll be amazed at the results. This lens is incredible!! It gives you a good reach so you can shoot from obscurity and wide enough to cover floor to ceiling IMHO. My wife and I shoot at a modern church with theatre lighting and no windows. I go in with my K100D with the 50 1.4, 105 f2.8, and 135 f2.8, manual primes. She's got the Tamron on the K10 and most of the time her shots are much better exposed and richer in color compaired to mine. I have to make it up in PP. I've also noticed that when shooting in these conditions it's better to get upper body and faces then full height shots. From the exif the only thing I can figure is that the skin tone of the face reflects much more light than clothes do which results in higher ISO, shutter rates and aperature settings. Another thing to watch with the K10 and the Tamron is that in P mode and Auto ISO the K10 will set shutter first...down to 1/30th, then aperature f2.8 or vica-versa inorder to achieve the best ISO it can get. I'm still trying to figure out how I might be able to cheat this a little inorder automatically limit the shutter to no less than 1/60th and the f to no less than 3.0 or 3.5. Sometimes the limited dof and shutter speeds can get you into trouble. If there are places around in the theatre with somewhat low ceilings, I'd carry a swivel head strobe like the Sigma DG (ST or Super) and take advantage of a little bounce flash from time to time. Remember, most of all to relax and have fun.....
Good Luck with it,
Chuck