Originally posted by RioRico I could have handled a bit more pleasantly wasted time.
In my US Army days, I lived in barracks, rather than spend money on off-post rooms. That money went to buying camera gear instead. I knew (and cared for) nobody off-post; my free time was spent in darkroom rather than in dark bars. My LT was a non-standard chap, wrote a bio of his childhood buddy Vaugn Bode (underground cartoonist who auto-asphyxiated himself), lived alone in BOQ. We had interesting chats on how such monastic environments foster creativity as sublimation for sex.
Yeah, intense darkroom work is rewarding. But I'd rather have got laid.
ObTopic: Do FF cameras get you laid? Which is more seductive: Canon, Nikon, Sony? Would Pentax FF be a babe magnet?
Cameras don't get you laid unless you are already a "babe magnet" without 'em. That's because millions of frat boys buy Rebels and say "I'm a photographer - take off your clothes, please!". This is acceptable if they already think you're cute - in which case you
don't really need the camera; if they don't think you're attractive, most will immediately peg you a "creeper".
Of course, actually *working* as a photographer is a different thing. Models are frequently attracted to men who are being paid by someone else to take their picture, and bystanders and hangers-on are often smitten with the fellow at the center of all the fuss. And I know a couple of wedding photographers that get quite a bit of "action", so to speak, but that's mostly tied to the fact that they can tell bridesmaids that they do some 'fashion' work during the week, and do weddings on the weekends for cash.
I wanted to be a cross between Helmut Newton and J. Stephen Hicks when I was a youth of eighteen. I thought I might find models at local strip clubs - because NOBODY ever thought of THAT before.
LOL. I finally did, but I hadda become a bouncer at the strip club in order to gain the trust of the girls before they'd accept that I really wanted to take their picture, not just see 'em naked-er, or get 'em in the sack.