Ebay has plenty of lenses, and shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=889257&u=523490&m=66875&urllink=keh.com has plenty. You won't have any problems spending your lens budget.
If you have some camera shows in your area, check them out. There should be some Pentax mount lens there behind all the Canon and Nikon lenses. Prices should be down because everyone else at the show will be buying those same Canon and Nikon lenses and ignoring the Pentax mounts.
From what I've read, the eneloop NiMH batteries seem to hold their charge longer in storage. I don't have a problem with my regular NiMH's since I pretty much take them out of the charger and shoot right away. I get ~600 shots on my 2400mAh batteries. When I travel, I use disposable CRV3's. In fact, I'm still using them from my Thanksgiving trip and have probably put close to 1000 shots on them. They're still showing full, but I hear they drop off quickly when they run out. Still, I think they'll last a bit longer.
Search here for a thread about rechargeable CRV3's. They're not recommended and at least one person has posted about some problems/damage they caused with his camera. To me, it's not worth the risk, especially when I get the performance I do with the recommended batteries.
As for zooms, the Pentax DA50-200 gets high marks for the image quality and the price. There's still a $50 rebate until January 9. That zoom coupled with the kit lens gives you a nice, light setup with a good range.
The other option is one of the superzooms. I have a Tamron 28-300, but it's discontinued. There's an 18-200 out now. The image quality isn't quite as good if you look at full scale images. But viewing on the web or printing less than 8x10, you probably won't notice the difference. The plus is convenience. It's a nice, one-lens travel package.
One last thing. Check the firmware version. I think Pentax is up to version 1.02. 1.01 gave compatibility with 4GB SD cards. I don't know what the newest version does. Upgrade if you choose to use the larger cards. I find that 1GB and 2GB cards work fine for me. If you shoot raw, each file is just over 10mb, so you'll get just under 100 shots per GB of storage.
Congratulations on the purchase! Have fun and post pictures!