1 a body with a built in vertical grip -
Doesn't really make sense to me with the market (also FF) are going in the opposite direction. "Big is good" is losing traction.
2 Have select auto focus via the eye ie like Canon have done ( with my K10 I find using the wheel a pain) -
As I recall, not even Canon use it anymore. Why, I do know.
3 Get rid of things like programe -
I have yet to find a mode on the dial that is bad. The green mode is never used by me but I can see the value of it. Program is a really cleaver mode that I should use more often due to the sheer speed of work-flow with it.
4 Get rid of pop up flash dont ever use it -
Well, it doesn't do any harm and I've used it to control external flashes.
5 Dont ever care for a touch screen or a movable screen ( I guess I am too old school SLR person LOL ) -
I'm fine with touchscreen ,as long as it doesn't affect the physical controls, it would be nice to have in some occasions like macro or studio. After crawling around for a day shooting bugs two weeks ago my body was screaming for a pop-out screen, not needed but nice at occasions.
6 Faster FPS & auto focus for sports -
As one who started shooting by shooting Ice Hockey, this is probably my top priority. I would like 7fps so I don't lose anything coming from the K-5. I would for sure sacrifice MP for speed.
7Get rid of stupid colored bodies cameras are either black or silver -
As long as they bring in extra profit to Pentax I can't see why the possibility to choose colors is a bad thing.
8 Wish more companies would make more lens / flashes etc for Pentax -
Third party support is pretty bad yes. Third party flashes are though with Pentax bad flash control system that is light years behind Canon and Nikon.
9 Get rid of the movie part yes again I am old school SLRs are for stills if you want a video go & buy a video camera -
Well, DSLRs are starting to take over the budget movie industry as they provide way more bang for buck. Consumer camcorders are lagging far behind today and sales are dropping quickly. I bet that the small extra cost of video is eaten up by the extra sales profit and better reviews.
Check this about camcorders and why people are switching to DSLRs and mirrorless for video: