Thanks for the help all, I think in the future I'll try her on Tv at 1/500. If that doesn't give good results I'll have to set my own user program or just buy a bridge camera for her.
Not to be a jerk to my wife (I love her to death, honest) but having her learn the bells and whistles of my camera is not going to happen. She NEEDS to have autofocus-point since she won't focus/meter/recompose any shots, and she will not bother to mave any dials to get the best shots. That's not to say she can't learn, she just wont take any pictures with it if the thing is too complicated. She normally won't fool with the camera at all, but if I tell her "Its on full auto, just point and shoot" then she'll actually take pictures
I think its a bit of a mis-nomer to call it Hi-Speed if that really only means a stop of shutter... that's not hi speed in my book. Shrug. I want shots with high shutter speed and narrow DOF, so if there was a mode that honored my auto ISO bounds and could let me set some bounds on aperture that would be great. Does Sv honor the auto ISO bounds?
True, I got the camera for me to take candid portraits not sports, but I'd like to think that with a bit of tweaking she could get good results if I set it up like the dreaded "Man jumping hurdle" mode on so many Canikons out there.