Originally posted by clackers (Laughs). If a Pentaxian has done anything like this, I don't want to hear about it!
I think we may be insured against that, thanks Pentax .... I was always pleased that my K7 did not have the automatic pop-upping flash (which my old Canon EOS300 did) .... In P mode it would always catch you out, and delayed the actual capture of the shot as well. Much better the Pentax way with the photographer taking the decisions ....
Which I guess comes back to the main focus of this thread, which has become to be about how we learn and find out specific kinds of information and get our knowledge.
I do think there will always be certain kinds of generic photography-equipment functioning type of things that will remain outside the scope of individual camera modal manuals. One of these things IMO is probably the general principles of automatic flash exposure. Certainly I found this knowledge through photography books, going back to the days when I used the Canon SLR, which had the same kind of built-in flash with its ETTL exposure control. So the awareness of ambient light and flash exposure balancing techniques and how the cameras function came from general photography books .... When I got my Pentax I knew automatically that P-TTL was the equivilent' of the general system types I had been reading about.
There are some system specific quirks that you'd have to read about, perhaps in flash dedicated books (for Canon and Nikon) or something like my Guide for Pentax (as sadly there are no books on the flash system yet). It seems that knowing about whether the flash system tries for a fill-in or a full exposure is something we just have to pick up somehow, probably through forums. Canikon have additional custom controls to further refine these behaviors ... Ours is determined automatically.
That's probably why the combination of manual exposure mode plus P-TTL auto flash mode is so good ... Transparent and consistent.
The other bit of system-specific knowledge that was part of this problem for the OP is the behaviour of the flash when the lens aperture is uncoupled from the cameras control. If you understand that P-TTL is dependent on aperture coupling and autofocus, then its easier to figure out the variations .... We only have small (small print literally!) guidance in the manuals about the flash firing at full power in that instance. There were a number of trip-up hazards for our OP all combining here, and it's been interesting to think about their impact. The question is, how best to tie it all together, in what form so the information is easily accessible .... ?