Screw drive autofocus is definitely louder than what you are used to with your Canon, but unless you are doing your portrait work in a library it is unlikely to be much a problem. There are some really good portrait options with screw drive - from the affordable (FA 50mm f1.4, DA 50mm f1.8) to the wonderful (FA 77mm Limited). Pentax has a great range of primes for APS-C, but any one of these will serve you well for portraits.
The DA* 55mm has SDM instead of screw drive, which is nice and quiet, but as you already know that comes at a premium. Of course, it is a really good lens too - you aren't just paying for the quiet AF
For landscape AF noise is a non-issue, but the current DA zooms are all DC or SDM anyway (both are silent). If you prefer primes all round the wide DA Limiteds are screw drive and produce awesome photos.
For the body, if you have been happy with the results your 70D gives you, you will be extremely happy with the K-70. The K-3II is a step up, but Pentax doesn't overly cripple the lower tier models (in the way that Canon and Nikon can do), so the K-70 has pixel shift, for instance, which is a pretty high end feature. Most of the differences come down to where money is saved in the physical build - it is cheaper to not include battery grip contacts and a second SD card slot. You'll need to decide if you can live without those extras tht are on the K-3II. Note that the K-3II doesn't have a built in flash or wifi, the K-70 will have both.