Originally posted by kman42 Thanks all for your responses. I actually think the comments about lens choices are spot-on. I have the 18-135, but all my other lenses are screw drive or manual focus. In particular I've been trying to get use out of my Tamron 17-50 but it really doesn't focus well. After considering the suggestions, I think I will stay with my K5ii for now and swap the Tamron 17-50 for a Sigma 17-50 HSM. I think I also need to ease up on available light shooting sometimes and embrace flash abit more.
A lot of my problems with what I thought were out of focus were actually motion blur. Using flash even applies to out doors but as fill rather than main. Something you can bounce is the way to go. You can do it on camera or off. Lately I use a Godox TT600 fully manual but with the XPro-P trigger so I can put it on a stand in the room and just let it bounce off the ceiling but still be able to adjust the power from on top of the camera. These are just from a single bounce flash on a stand in a corner of the room. These are at F1.8 on the K1+77mm but shows how the bounced light brightens the room while still looking natural and even and you get clean ISO 100. These are just casual snapshots of family doing stuff last Christmas.
It takes some practice but learning flash is not that hard. It also helps that my kids have grown and don't bounce around so much, but my youngest still does.
This was shot outdoors in dim early morning light on the shaded side of the house, same flash but put inside a cheap godox softbox.