Well, I think that 16-50 QC problem is pretty much a travesty, of all lenses, this was not where Pentax ought to have allowed QC problems to occur, whatever the cost.
...On the other hand, to be fair, buying them used makes it a lot more likely you're not gonna get a good one, cause the good ones are really nice, and ones with problems are the ones more likely to keep circulating the used market. (The Tokinas appear to be the same design, but you don't get the SMC coating or the weathersealing, or, as I'm told, the SDM. )
Doesn't seem we've been hearing so much about those QC problems for a while, though,and they don't cost over a thousand dollars. I haven't followed the issue closely cause it's not the focal length range I'm interested in, (I'm looking at a Tammie 28-75 for my zooming needs, and since lens prices in general have gone up, I'm just not in a huge hurry to spend four hundred on a zoom of any kind, anyway) Anyway, just for another view on that. It doesn't seem anyone else is having a tremendously-easy time making a top-flight lens that does that 16-50's job, either: more's the pity Pentax fell down over stupid stuff with theirs.
I think the reason I'm with Pentax is pretty simple. I could afford a body with full controls, good build, handling, VF, and weathersealing. Also. FA 50 1.4.
The other brands make some nice stuff, but always seem to be holding out on the basics (things I need/take for granted as an old-school film shooter who never saw the need for a computerized camera all along) in order to sell things I can't afford.
If I had the more money, I might have made some different decisions, but I've found a lot to love about this Pentax stuff. Some don't want to wait to see what develops/gets sorted out, but I have the time, myself.
I'd suggest that the real concern is what's going to give you the photo experience you need. My biases tend to lie with what I get out of Pentax because I'd rather have the solidity and handling than higher performance in any particular area: I want control and accuracy far more than speed or blistering fps or anything. Just bearing that in mind.
Still, while I'd certainly be frustrated at the quest for a good copy of the 16-50, and I don't know what recourse you have about the used one you got, if that's really the thing you want, I'd consider trying to make it right. If I were in that market, I might look to get one from someone here I'd trust to vouch for a copy, or from a place that's good with returns.