I agree you can get excellent results witheven the older 6mp cameras (i still have my ds) , but the caveat is that comparing images on a monitor that have been downsized is futile at best
the best way is still to compare controlled images at full resolution.
If you want to print large though the 6mp has it's limits. @ 13x19 they get noticeably soft, and that continues as you print larger (I've still printed some larger because the image was one i wanted larger, but certainly if I had shot the same image on my k7 with the same lens it would have looked better on the large print. Same will hold true on a D800 or a 645D. hte decision then is can you justify the costs to yourself for the marginal improvements versus say just getting a K5 or it's replacement. For me for now the answer is no since i just don't have the cash (or really the need for what I do)> If OTOH I was doing this for a living full time and doing a lot of studio work I would seriously be considering the Nikon or the 645D
If I won a lottery tomorrow I'd probably order the Nikon just because the lenses are easier to come by, but I'd also run a Pentax system with FA limiteds and a few other lenses as a smaller walk around solution (and if a Pentax FF was announced I'd have my order in at the shop the next day)
Heck if a FF is announced in the fall I will struggle with my choice for next body (no big rush the K7 is still a very fine camera inmost scenarios) lottery or not
BTW Imaging resource has full size samples going back to the ist D you could download and compare to the more modern sizes. if you re size both to 8mp is will give direct comparisons in performance (8mp is the size DXO does their comparisons at)