Quote: have a checklist of the pictures you want to get.
For a friend-of-a-friend freebie...
1) Full length formal of bride. Remember it's all about her, mostly...
2) The couple plus minister during ceremony. Conveys a sense of legal wedlock...
3) The cake, (or better), the cake cutting action. Do not encourage frosting smearing!
4) The bouquet toss. Tradition has become to fake the first throw for the shot, then for reals.
5) The garter toss. Don't fake it, just take it. By then, if alcohol has been flowing, and sometimes even when not, no one is taking directions anymore.
That pretty much sums up the event :-)
If you get an excellent shot of each of the above, the rest is gravy.
That gravy consists of the bride and groom, bride and maid/s of honor, groom and best man/men, and (drumroll...) the couple with parents, and with grandparents (sets of parents/grandparents separately). For larger groups you have them execute the "turn and squish up" maneuver to get them all in the frame without too much of the light fixtures and floor showing in a sweeping panorama. It also allows you to get a bit closer which bumps the flash effectiveness. These are all normally done in the church with flash, or outside with a suitable background if lighting allows. Don't sweat the poses too much - after the first batch, everyone else will know the routine. As long as eyes are open and they are somewhat smiling, you are good. You might take a couple of each if you have "problem squinter".
Friends and people who came for the food you can just shoot at each table during the dinner - but you'll have to ask half of them to move to the other side for the shot. And shoot the people, not the half eaten food on the table.
You can ask the bride and groom individually if they want a shot with any particular people. Find a nice corner to set up in and have those people come on over...
Oh, and a shot of the invitation is handy for the names and date. You can use some parts of gift-wrapping to add some festivity.
God, now I remember why I only did a few of these...
Last edited by SpecialK; 06-30-2010 at 06:17 PM.