sorry for the delay in getting back to this thread. thank you for the pointers. I have some updates since I got the dithering to work:
1. PHD2 with guide scope for autoguiding
2. ACOM for DLSR (
https://github.com/FearL0rd/ASCOM.DSLR/blob/master/DSLR.Camera%20Setup.exe; GitHub - FearL0rd/ASCOM.DSLR: ASCOM Driver for DSLR Cameras)
3. i have the Pentax K1-mII connected to "control laptop" by USB in "MSC" mode
4. APT as overall imaging controller
a. controlling PHD2 over IP socket
b. controlling mount over ASCOM driver
c. controlling Pentax K1 over ASCOM driver
with this setup i am able to dither and shoot but I see 2 image files being captured for each sub-exposure which is wasting time:
a. ASCOM DSLR is capturing a DNG file
b. APT is capturing a FITS file after the DNG is captured